Conflicts!

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It is in nature for some of us to build walls in between a two person who are in conflict.Most of the people value their "pride" so much that they never see the real reason why conflicts are made.In friendship, whenever two friends have their MU(misunderstanding),they never talk to each other and they pretend to be okay(even if they're not).In relationships, especially in the opposite sex,they have their LQ(lover's quarrel) sometimes,that may lead to break-ups.In the family,however, conflicts occur to anyone.Maybe to a mother and a father, or to brothers and sisters.It can make a family broken.For me,conflicts are not made to tear two persons apart or to ruin any relationship but it is a trial to everyone, to make relationship strong and to make them realize how they need the person ;how they long to be with them again.It's a matter of "forgiving" and "accepting".
Do you remember the phrase "to forgive is to forget"?It really gives you the idea how to make things better and not to make it worst.If only all of the people would realize the meaning of this words,all of us will learn to build bridges instead of walls,right?Although we have different levels of conflicts, we should never measure how big or smallit is but rather see what we get if we made through it.Life is too short to spend it alone, in order to make life meaningful and colorful we need peace in our minds and not hatred in our hearts.

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  1. Teacher LynnieAugust 13, 2010 at 7:36 AM

    Sometimes forgiving also means forgiving until you forget the pain but necessarily the memory.

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